“I Was Forced To Sleep With My Former Husband Before His Burial” Nyamira Woman Recounts

Nyamira Woman Recounts Painful Ordeal at Ex-Husband’s Burial.

A woman from Nyamira County Mellen Mogaka has opened up about the horrific cultural practice she was subjected to during the funeral of her ex-husband, Joseph Osoro, a bodaboda rider who tragically lost his life in a road accident.

What should have been a solemn farewell turned into a nightmare as she was forced to sleep in the same room as her late ex-husband’s coffin the night before the burial.

Cultural Burial Ritual Sparks Outrage

Mellen, who had traveled from Narok to Nyamira for the funeral, was shocked when some family members demanded that she **follow a cultural ritual she had never agreed to.

When she refused to throw soil into the grave, tensions escalated, leading to a violent attack by angry relatives who accused her of disrespect and even blamed her for her ex-husband’s death.

Brutal Assault Caught on Camera

Eyewitnesses report that Mellen was:

✔ Beaten for refusing to comply

✔ Dragged to the gravesite and assaulted

✔ Had her shoes thrown into the grave as punishment

A video of the incident, filmed in Nyamira, quickly went viral, sparking public outrage and a heated debate on the clash between tradition and human rights.

Police Arrest Three Suspects Amid Public Outcry

Following intense pressure from the public and human rights activists, police in Nyamira arrested three suspects linked to the attack.

Speaking on the matter, Inspector General of Police Douglas Kanja condemned the incident, stating:

“Gender-based violence has no place in Kenya. We are committed to ensuring justice for the victim and holding the perpetrators accountable.”

Detectives from the Directorate of Criminal Investigations (DCI) have confirmed that investigations are ongoing, with the possibility of more arrests as the case unfolds.

Culture vs. Human Rights: Where Should the Line Be Drawn?

This case has reignited national debate on whether outdated cultural practices should be allowed to continue when they violate basic human rights.

Activists argue that traditions that oppress, humiliate, or harm individuals must be abolished, while some elders insist on preserving cultural heritage.